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Life: Picture it NOW

In my brain-fried state of mind after a long day of work and whatever else life throws my way, I find myself  “facebooking”, a verb I predict will be added to the dictionary in the near future BTW.

After flipping through my news feed, I was still mind-numb and didn’t feel like sleeping, so I flipped through my own pictures to reminisce on old times. Something i’m sure, and hope, everyone does once in a while.

I want you to take a minute and section out your day with what you do with your time.

For me, an average 24 hour work day goes like this..

7 hours sleep, 2  hours getting ready and driving, 8 hours work,  3 hours errands/pets/house/dinner maintenance, 3 hours homework/grading/planning,  1 hour of relaxing/getting ready to fall asleep… and repeat.  That’s only if I don’t have other things I need to do, like coach after school, or get the car fixed, etc.

Random weekend canoe and off-road adventure trip in Gladwin, Michigan
Random weekend canoe and off-road adventure trip in Gladwin, Michigan

When looking at the pictures, click after click,  I had a mini epiphany realizing that WOW, I’ve had a crazy, adventurous, fun life with awesome people… but how could that be?

 

 

 

When I take a snapshot of what my average day looks like, I realize that I’ve barely set aside any time at all to even have a life, but somewhere in chaos, I made a choice.

 

Ended up running the Detroit Half Marathon by myself, the view was worth it :)
Ended up running the Detroit Half Marathon by myself, the view was worth it 🙂

When I seemed too busy to even fathom doing anything besides what I need to do, I chose to do what I want to do instead.

I’ve made choices to live instead of exist.

Life is not your job, house, or stuff. Life comes in the moments in-between what normally fills our day and mind. So even though you have endless responsibilities, set time to actually do what you want and enjoy life, because if you’re not… then what’s the point of all work you put into it?

Everyone needs to make a living, but most people forget to actually live in the life they work so hard to make.

So I post a challenge to everyone reading this,  I want you to make a choice to do something that makes you happy instead of something productive… and take a picture of it. 

Better yet… reminisce with your own pictures tag any pictures of you making the choice to live instead of exist, it will help stir up the ambition that’s in all of us!

If you have Instagram, tag the picture with #time2beAmbitious.  If you don’t have Instagram, tag the Facebook page Time2beAmbitious in your picture.

Happy tagging 🙂 I look forward to seeing everyone live!

 

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Do not let the fear of FAILING keep you from SUCCEEDING

As I hang up the phone from talking to the representatives of Kaplan University, I was pretty much taken back at the fact that just a week and a half earlier, I decided to get my masters and was registered and ready to start in just two days.  I decided to go for a masters in educational technology with emphasis on web design, the classes would be entirely online, but they were five credit courses that finished every six weeks. For those who don’t know, that’s a lot of work in a little bit of time.  The good news was, I’d be done in 14 months.

My timing could have been better, being that I decided all this just a few weeks before my school year started (i’m a teacher), but I figured it would be a year full of support from coworkers, and I wouldn’t be coaching in the fall either….well all that changed very quickly.

My team: a 2:65 ratio!
My team: a 2: to 65 ratio!

The week before school started, professional development was getting started, so I was checking emails and unpacking boxes in my new classroom when I noticed one of our coworkers sent out an email notification that they found a new job in a different district, but it was good for him and the family.  I didn’t think much of it, until two days later when I received multiple phone calls about becoming the schools new cross country coach, the job that became vacant at the loss of that employee.

I felt honored, but at the same time, I was starting a teaching year of two subjects I haven’t taught before, and just started my masters,

could I really succeed at all of them at the same time?

Quick answer… Yes, but it didn’t happen without stress induced medical symptoms.

Managing Cross Country Meets
Managing Cross Country Meets

In reflecting on how my life has been from this past September to November, I thought it would be appropriate to blog about how to handle the stress and time commitments of a very busy life, which I know for a fact, I’m not the only one enduring. Everyone has crazy times in their lives at some point, whether it is what I’m going through, or moving, or getting a house, married, child, new job, the list goes on forever!  I’m not trying to get sympathy or condolences, just attempting to give some tips and reassurance to those who are in a similar situation or want to pick up the pace of their lives.

So on top of teaching a teaching job from 6:30-2:30, coaching from 2:45-4, house/animal care-taking from 5-6, dinner making from 6-7, I had to dedicate the evening to something more relaxing.  I would constantly bring work home to do, but realistically…never got to it, and that’s OKAY.

The busier you are, the better you get at managing your time.

Created my own science curriculum and still made it fun and hands-on :)
Created my own science curriculum and still made it fun and hands-on 🙂

My prep time at work was jam packed with planning for the week ahead, my lunches consisted of either grading or responding to discussion posts for my masters classes, and I would call in the help of parents to come in and do my copying for me.  You learn to make-do, and that’s exactly what I did for those months of chaos.  The beginnings are always rough and exhausting because you haven’t learned to manage time. There was a time where I had to call a sub to go to urgent care at the end of the school day because I had to be ready to go to a cross country meet to coach after-school.  I was suffering symptoms of an ulcer, which, the main cause? Stress.  After changing some diet choices and reaching out to others to help lighten the load, the symptoms went away and I know now better ways to handle the coaching season.

Happy ending to the story?  I aced all my masters classes since I’ve started, my students have learned what they needed to

Enjoying time outside of work
Enjoying time outside of work

learn in the classroom, and cross country was the best coaching experience I’ve had so far and I can’t wait till next season. On top of all this, I’ve kept up with my fitness, enjoyed dinners and movies with my husband, and went on many adventures with my pup and friends.  Time management is the key to success, but it was definitely a learning experience to get to where I am today.

After truly dedicating myself to a break for the holidays, I face the second half of the year consisting of masters classes, teaching full time, soccer and cross country conditioning, followed by another very time committing season of coaching high school soccer (plus hosing a cross country race in the spring to fundraise). I know it’s going to be tough, but I’m ready and willing :).

Dedicating time for family and fun, GO GREEN ;)
Dedicating time for family and fun, GO GREEN 😉

The moral of the story, you live and learn, and sometimes life can be so crazy that you don’t know how to do it all, but you always get by.  If you want to further your education, do it! If you want to change careers, do it!

Don’t let intimidation of failure block the pathway of success; you’re stronger than you think!